Eia hou ka Mahina Pride. Hoʻohanohano mākou i kēia makahiki i ʻelua mau makahiki mai ka hoʻoholo ʻana a ka ʻAha Hoʻokolokolo Kiʻi no ka like o ka male ʻana. Hoʻolauleʻa mākou i ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka ʻike ma ke kīwī a me ke kīwī no nā huaʻōlelo LGBTQ a me nā pilikia. He lōʻihi nō kā mākou e hele pū me kahi Pelekikena Hope i manaʻoʻiʻo i ka hoʻohuli hoʻohuli a me kahi Pelekikena e hoʻohālike ʻaʻole mākou e noho āpau ke ʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana iā mākou i kekahi ʻano, akā ke hana nei mākou i nā ʻanuʻu.

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Ma ke ʻano he kāne aloha i ka pīhoihoi weliweli, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻike akā ua hiki mai kekahi makahiki ʻē aʻe me ka ʻole o kekahi ʻano ʻano ʻē ma ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. ʻAʻole hoʻokahi, a ma mua o kou lele ʻana i kaʻu hihia, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana. ʻAʻole wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka subtext. ʻAʻole wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana kekahi manawa, ia , hoʻomaoe hou akula ma ka hiki kēlā ʻano paha in kekahi ala ʻikeʻia ma ke ʻano he lālā o ke kaiāulu LGBTQ. ʻLelo wau e pili ana i kahi ʻano LGBTQ i kākau ʻia a hana ʻia pēlā.

A hiki i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kau pono i koʻu manamana lima i ke kumu no ka haʻalele mau ʻia ʻana o mākou. Hoʻokomo maoli ʻia mākou i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni indie i nā manawa āpau. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kahi pūʻulu o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kūʻokoʻa ʻaʻole i hōʻike wale i nā huapalapala hiehie i ka makahiki i hala, akā ua kūkulu ʻia nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni āpau a puni lākou, akā ʻo ka pilikia ka hapa nui ʻole o nā kumuwaiwai a hiki ʻole i ka poʻe lehulehu e hoʻolaha.

Ehia o ʻoukou i ʻike i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Dominic Haxton “ʻO kēia pō ʻo ʻoe”? ʻO nā kikowaena kiʻi ʻoniʻoni 2016 e pili ana iā CJ e hele ana i kahi pō i hoʻokahi pō no ka hookup a loaʻa iā ia i waenakonu o kahi exorcism ua hewa hewa loa. Ehia mau mea i ʻike Pitchfork ʻo wai kahi kikowaena ma kahi o kahi kāne kāne ʻōpio e hoʻi ana i ka home e sila i ka ʻaelike ke hele i waho i kona ʻohana, ʻike wale ʻia ua pepehi ʻia lākou a ʻo ia a me kona mau hoaaloha i alualu ʻia e kahi mea pepehi kanaka me kahi pitchfork no ka lima?

Aia kekahi mau hoʻokoe i kēia, ʻoiaʻiʻo. Paipai kekahi ʻO ka lawe ʻana iā Deborah Logan mai ka 2014 no ka mea ʻaʻole wale me ke ʻano wahine moe wahine i kā lākou kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, akā no ka hoʻolilo ʻana iā ia i wahine wahine wahine maoli maoli aʻu i ʻike ai i kahi kiʻi hoʻoweliweli. ʻAʻole ʻo ia ma laila e titillate i ka helu kanaka ʻōpio ma ka holo ʻana a puni ka hapalua o ka ʻōlohelohe a hana i nā pass ma nā wahine wahine ʻē aʻe. Akā, he wahine wahine hoʻomohala piha ʻo ia e pili ana i nā kūlana weliweli i lilo i wahine wahine ʻole.  ʻO Deborah Logan pahū ma muli o ka waha o ka waha e pili ana i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni maikaʻi loa a hōʻea i kahi lehulehu ākea ma mua o ka mea i manaʻo ʻia e nā mea hana kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

ʻAʻole ʻike ka hapa nui o kēia mau mea hana kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i kēia ʻano o ka ukali, akā hoʻomau lākou i ka hana, e hana ana i nā mea leʻaleʻa hou no ka poʻe e hoʻoneʻe i ko lākou niho, a ke nonoi aku nei mākou iā lākou ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni maikaʻi loa no ka mea ua wī mākou no ka moho. .

Akā e hoʻi hou i ka hihia ma ka lima. He aha ka mea e mālama nei i nā huapalapala hier mai nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli? ʻAʻole mākou e kākau ʻia i loko o nā palapala a i ʻole nā ​​poʻo studio a me nā mea hana e komo i loko e hana i nā loli? A no ke aha he mea nui ia?

OK, e uhaʻi i kēia.

 ʻAʻole kākau ʻia nā huapalapala mele i nā palapala a i ʻole e hoʻoponopono ʻia kā mākou orientations e hana ʻoluʻolu i nā hoʻopiʻi squeamish?

Ua hauʻoli nui wau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea kākau kākau Hollywood kaulana loa i kēia manawa a ua ʻike mākou iā mākou iho ma kēia kumuhana kikoʻī. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia o kāna kākau ʻana, hoʻopili mau ʻo ia i hoʻokahi a i ʻole ʻelua mau ʻano mana. Ua kanikau ʻo ia no ka hapa nui o ka manawa ua hoʻololi ʻia ke ʻano o kēlā mau ʻano a no nā kumu ʻelua.

1. ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu ka mea hana keaka i ka hana leʻaleʻa a makemake ʻole paha kāna mea hōʻike iā ia e kikokiko i ka wanaʻao o kāna ʻoihana. ʻ saylelo wau i ka bullshit i kēia. Inā ʻoluʻolu ʻole kahi mea hana keaka keaka, ʻaʻole pono iā ia e audition no ka ʻāpana. Nui a hewahewa nā mea hana keaka i waho a ʻike wau aia kekahi o lākou e lele i ka manawa kūpono e lawe i ka hana. Inā he kāne pololei ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki ke pāʻani i ka wahine no ka mea makaʻu ʻoe i ka mea a ka poʻe e ʻōlelo ai a manaʻo ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawelawe iā ia, kūlou aloha a i ʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, mai hoʻolohe i ka hana ma ka wahi mua me ka manaolana e hoʻololi ia ma hope.
2. Hoʻopiʻi nā mea hana. ʻO ka mea kākau i kamaʻilio pū wau me ia ʻaʻole ia i pilikia me kahi alakaʻi e makemake ana e hoʻololi i ke ʻano o kāna mau huapalapala, a ʻaʻole nō ia mai nā mea paʻi kiʻi paʻi a me nā limahana ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole, ʻo kāna mau pilikia i ʻaneʻane mai nā mea hana. ʻO nā mea hana e "hopohopo e lilo ana kekahi o kā lākou mau pepeiao" inā he ʻano nui ko lākou. Hopohopo nā mea hana ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kūʻai aku i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i kekahi mau wahi o ka ʻāina / honua no ka mea he wahine kāne ke ʻano. ʻO wau e ʻōlelo nei, e like me ka pono haipule ke kuleana no nā ʻōlaʻi, nā wāwahi kaʻaahi, a me nā pōpilikia ʻē aʻe, no laila ke manaʻo nei ʻaʻole ia he kiʻi lōʻihi loa e lilo ana ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i kekahi mau kālā. ʻO kaʻu nīnau iā lākou, inā lākou i paʻi i nā helu i ka nui o ke kālā a lākou e loaʻa ai mai ke kaiāulu LGBTQ inā mālama lākou i kēlā mau huapalapala e like me kā lākou i kākau ai.

No ke aha he mea nui ia?

E hoʻopololei loa, no ka mea. ʻO ka māka hoʻolohe no nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli e like me SlideShare.com lalo o a papa waena keʻokeʻo kāne o 15-25. ʻAʻole paha e pīhoihoi iā ʻoe ke ʻike he nui ka hoʻopili ʻia o ka ʻikepili kanaka me kēlā mau pūʻulu i helu ʻia e ka Hui Hoʻohui Kuleana Kanaka e hana hewa hewa paha i ke kaiāulu aliʻi.

I kēia manawa, e noʻonoʻo inā hiki iā mākou ke hana maʻamau i nā huapalapala mele no kēia lāhui kanaka. E noʻonoʻo inā ʻike lākou, ʻoi aku ka pinepine, nā huapalapala i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli, ʻo ia hoʻi, LGBTQ. ʻAʻole kēlā ka mea nui e pili ana iā lākou. ʻAʻole kēlā ka mea e ʻoi loa e pili ana iā lākou. Kūleʻa wale lākou a pili pū me ka slasher / hoʻoweliweli like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

Eia nō naʻe, kēlā mau ʻōpio haʻukiʻi weliweli, e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, nānā iā lākou iho i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. E kahaha paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka manaʻo o ke keiki ʻōpio ʻōpio e ʻike i kekahi e like me lākou ma ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a ʻike ʻaʻole lākou wale nō i kēia ao. No ke aha ʻoe e manaʻo nei e hoʻomau maikaʻi ana ka "American Horror Story" i nā helu me nā poʻe ʻōpio ʻōpio. ʻO Ryan Murphy, no ka mea he kāne aloha ʻo ia iā ia iho, hoʻomau i ke kākau ʻana i nā huapalapala huikau no ka hōʻike i kēlā me kēia kau. E kahaha paha ʻoe i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou iho i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ke ʻano o ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ke ola a me ka make.

A ʻo ka hopena, he aha ka pane?

ʻĀ, no ka poʻe hoʻomaka, ʻaʻole akaka kēlā. ʻAe, makemake mākou i ka moho i ka weliweli, akā like me nā mea hana ʻuʻuku no Oscar, ʻaʻole makemake mākou e like ia me kahi makana hōʻoluʻolu a i ʻole hāʻawi ʻia iā mākou e pani wale mākou. Eia nō naʻe, manaʻo wau e hana i nā mea kuʻikahi mai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua ma mua o ka haʻi ʻia ʻana o kēia mau mea āpau.

No hoʻokahi mea, pono mākou e ʻae e stereotyped i kekahi mau kekelē, ʻoi aku i ka hoʻomaka. ʻO nā mea āpau i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli kahi ʻano stereotype o kekahi ʻano. Mai ka blond blumb i ka horny jock i wimpy nerd me ka puʻuwai gula i ke kaikamahine hope loa, hoʻokumu ʻia ke ʻano ma luna o kēia mau tropes. ʻO ia ke kumu holoʻokoʻa Kaena i loko o ka ulu lāʻau aia He huhū ia, akā hoʻokahi e pono ke ʻeha ʻia inā makemake mākou e hele wāwae. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, no kēlā me kēia Laurie Strode e huli a hakakā, aia he mau haneli Lyndas a me Annies i lawelawe ʻia ma ke keʻena ʻoki.

Pēlā nō, pono nā mea hana, nā mea kākau, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe e launa me mākou i ka hapalua. Hoʻohiki mākou inā ʻoe e kākau iā mākou i kāu mau kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a hōʻike iā mākou ma o nā aniani like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hōʻike mākou. E nānā mākou a lawe mākou i kā mākou mau hoaaloha me mākou.

ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻae pololei i ka tokenism. ʻO ke ʻano o ka queer token hiki ke ʻaneʻane ʻino loa e like me ka ʻole o ka mea i hōʻike ʻia. Ua haʻi ʻo Wendy N. Wagner i ka mea kākau moʻolelo weliweli i kēia ma ka tokenism:

"He aha ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki ai ke hiki mai nā mea maikaʻi ʻole i nā huapalapala leʻaleʻa ʻo ia ka maʻa mau o ka wahine leʻaleʻa — a i ʻole ke ʻano o ke ʻano hoʻokahi - ʻo ia wale nō, ʻo lākou wale nō nā mea leʻaleʻa ma ka pakuhi, a ʻano like lākou me ka token . A i kēlā me kēia manawa inā he kūlana kou kahi kahi hōʻailona, ​​ʻano like lākou me ke kū i loko no kēlā me kēia kanaka helehelena e nānā nei i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. … [Akā] ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hui holoʻokoʻa o nā huapalapala a me nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e hana ʻia, like ia, ʻeā, ʻūlū weliweli. … Inā he nui kāu mau mele ʻano nui i kāu moʻolelo, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui inā ʻoki ʻia kekahi poʻo o lākou a hānai ʻo Cthulhu i ko lākou koko, no ka mea e pili ana kēlā i nā mea āpau. ”

No ka poʻe i heluhelu i kēia mamao a ke haʻohaʻo nei i ka hopena, hopohopo wau ʻaʻohe pane ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka makemake o nā mea aloha weliweli ma nā wahi āpau a i kekahi mau hanana pono e ʻike iā lākou iho ma ka papakaumaka.

ʻIke wau i kēia: Ma 20 mau makahiki, ʻaʻole makemake mākou Kahi moe moe ma ke alanui Elm 2 a hellbent ʻo ia wale nō nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e hoʻomaka koke i ka noʻonoʻo ke kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. ʻOi aku mākou ma mua o kēia mau kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻelua a koi mākou i nā mea hou aʻe mai nā mea hana keaka weliweli.