Kaʻana a makaʻu paha; Hiki i kāu mau keiki ke lawelawe i ka weliweli?

Ke noho nei i lalo me kāu 8 makahiki e nānā i "The Exorcist" e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i makua makua maikaʻi ʻole? Pono ʻoe e kaʻana a makaʻu paha? Aia nō iā ʻoe ka pane, akā ʻaʻole maikaʻi ʻole e like me kāu i manaʻo mua ai. Nui nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi no ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kahi pīhoihoi weliweli punahele me kāu poʻe keiki; iHorror na ʻO nā ʻōnaehana maʻamau haʻi iā ʻoe i nā hana ʻoi loa.

ʻO nā ʻōnaehana maʻamau, ka hui quintessential no ka palekana o ke keiki a me nā ʻano media, kamaʻilio me iHorror e pili ana i nā mākua a me nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. ʻOiai ʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo e waiho i kāu 8 mau makahiki e nānā iā "The Exorcist", manaʻo lākou aia kahi ala olakino e hoʻolauna iā ia i ka ʻano.

ʻO Caroline Knorr, mea hoʻoponopono makua ma Common Sense Media e kamaʻilio mai iā mākou e pili ana i ka makahiki kūpono e ʻae i kāu poʻe keiki e leʻaleʻa i nā leʻaleʻa o kēlā me kēia pā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a ʻaʻole palena nā hopena e like me kāu e noʻonoʻo ai.

7 ia aole ka helu laki

ʻOiai he ʻōpio loa kahi makahiki 7 e nānā i kahi kīwī weliweli, inā ʻoe e kali i hoʻokahi makahiki, mākaukau paha kāu keiki e kū i mua o kā lākou makaʻu a kiaʻi pū me ʻoe, "Ma kahi o 8 mau makahiki ke hōʻea nā keiki i ka "Makahiki o ke kumu." Hiki iā lākou ke hāhai i nā moʻolelo moʻolelo paʻakikī hou aku, a hoʻomaka lākou e hiki i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ʻaʻole ʻeleʻele a keʻokeʻo nā mea āpau, pololei a hewa paha. ” Wahi a Knorr.

Ma ke ʻano he makua, paʻakikī e waiho i nā keiki ʻōpio e hana i kā lākou koho ponoʻī a ma ka hapanui o nā hihia ʻaʻole makemake kahi makua maikaʻi. Akā i ka wā e pili ana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli, kahaha paha ʻoe e ʻike i ka ʻae ʻana i kāu keiki e hele mai iā ʻoe e pili ana i ka nānā ʻana i kahi ala maikaʻi loa e ana inā mākaukau ʻo ia ʻaʻole paha.

"Ma kahi o 8 mau makahiki ke hoʻomaka paha nā keiki e ʻimi i nā ʻike makaʻu e ʻimi nei no ka pīhoihoi." Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Knorr, "Hiki iā lākou ke hana me nā hoʻomaka o ka hakakā kūpilikiʻi - e like me ka nalo ʻana o kahi holoholona a makua paha a hemo ka wahine - akā ʻo nā hiʻohiʻona o ka huhū, hoʻomāinoino, kūpaʻa, a me nā pilikia pono e koi ai i ka hoʻonā ʻana ma ka palapala. ʻO nā kūlana weliweli maoli paha ka mea makaʻu loa. ʻOiai paha lākou e hoʻāʻo e like me he keiki nui, pono e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia nā makahiki 8 i ko lākou palekana. ”

Spoiling ia no ka pono o kāu keiki

ʻOiai he mea ʻaneʻane hiki ʻole i kēia mau lā ke nānā aku i kēlā me kēia wahi o ka pāpāho a kāu keiki e hauʻoli ai, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Knorr ʻo ke "hoʻokele" ʻana i ka media he ala maikaʻi loa ia e kaupalena ai i kā lākou kiʻi ʻana i nā mea āu e makemake ʻole ai. "Inā ʻoe e nānā nei i kahi mea me kāu keiki a ʻike ʻoe ua hele a makaʻu loa lākou, e hoʻopau wale i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo nei a noʻonoʻo ai, a inā he nui loa ia, hoʻi i kēia manawa. Kōkua ia e haʻi i kāu poʻe keiki e pili ana i nā hopena kūikawā, kākau ʻana, nā mele kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a pehea e hana ai ka luna i kahi manaʻo e hoʻohana nei i kēia mau ʻano ʻokoʻa. "

I ke au o kēia au, ʻike ʻia nā keiki i nā weliweli o ke ola maoli, a ʻo kēia mau mea ka hopena o ke keiki e hana pū me lākou. Wahi a Knorr, pono i kahi keiki ke hōʻike i kona ʻano ʻoi loa i nā manawa ke ikaika loa ka naʻau a hiki i ka makua.

"E nīnau, pehea kou manaʻo? He makaʻu kēlā? Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā lākou ʻo ʻoe *like me* e makaʻu iki ai a no laila ke hauʻoli nei ʻoe i ka nānā ʻana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. ʻIke ʻoe ʻaʻole ia he mea maoli akā hauʻoli ʻoe i ka ʻano makaʻu iki. ” Wahi a Knorr.

 

Weliweli i ka hale keaka me ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni home, aia he ʻokoʻa?

ʻOkoʻa ka ʻike kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma mua o ka noho ʻana ma ka home e nānā ana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni. Hiki i nā mea hoʻonāukiuki a me nā hopena o waho ke hana i kahi haki maoli, ʻoiai ke ʻano o ka hana keaka i mea e maʻū ai nā mea nānā me nā mea hoʻoulu. ʻ sayslelo ʻo Knorr ʻoiai ʻaʻole nui ka nui o nā noiʻi e hoʻoholo inā ʻoi aku ka luku ʻana o ka nānā ʻana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i ka home a i ʻole i ka lehulehu.

"Ma ka home," wehewehe ʻo Knorr, "e kani paha kāu kelepona i waenakonu o ka hana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaha i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e hele i ka lumipaku, a pēlā mākou ʻoiaʻiʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokolokolo maʻalahi i ka hopena o kāu keiki a hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha paha i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni inā nui loa ia. ”

Mai ʻae i ka hoihoi e pepehi i ke kamaʻilio

Ma muli wale nō o ka makemake o kāu keiki e nānā i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli, ʻaʻole ia he mākaukau. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Knorr i kahi ʻike pilikino me kāna 8 makahiki a me kāna hopena i kahi hōʻike kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e weliweli ai:

"I ka wā he 8 a 9 paha kaʻu keiki ua paʻa loa kona manaʻo e nānā i ka 'Misiona i Mars' (kahi a mākou i helu ai ma 8 mau makahiki) a me ka hāʻawi ʻole ʻana i nā mea hao wale, ua hele a uluhua loa ʻo ia i kahi hanana ke hui ke ʻano me ka hopena weliweli. Ua hōʻeha maoli kaʻu keiki a ua lilo kēlā manaʻo i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kau i kahi helehelena maikaʻi no ka mea ua koi ʻo ia e nānā i ka kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma mua. Manaʻo wau e heluhelu pono nā mākua i nā loiloi o Common Sense Media inā kānalua lākou a ʻaʻole hele i kahi mamao loa mai ka makahiki. E nānā i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o kāu poʻe keiki. Inā ʻike ʻoe ua hele a wīwī lākou i kekahi mea - a laila ʻaʻole e ana a ʻae iā lākou e nānā i kahi mea āu e ʻike nei e hoʻoweliweli iā lākou. Nui a hewahewa nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni no nā keiki a nui nā koho no ke kahe ʻana, DVRing, a pēlā aku.

Nā Killers e hiki mai ana?

ʻO ka manaʻo i ka waiho ʻana i nā keiki e nānā i nā mea kolohe a i ʻole ke hōʻike ʻana iā lākou i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi hiki ke hōʻemi i ka psychological psychological he mea ʻoiaʻiʻo ia, keu hoʻi inā ua psychologically hoʻopilikia ʻia kēlā keiki. Akā hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻoholo pono i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli ke nānā ʻana i kahi ʻike hoʻopaʻa ma mua o kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole. Hōʻike ʻo Knorr e hoʻomaka me kekahi o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni maʻamau.

"Inā koho ʻoe i ka makahiki kūpono (ma ʻO nā ʻōnaehana maʻamau, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni āpau i ka makahiki, hoihoi, a me nā kumuhana), ka palena palena, a kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni me kāu poʻe keiki, hiki i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ke hōʻoluʻolu pū ʻoe. ʻO kaʻu ʻōlelo e kiaʻi ai i kekahi o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli a kūkākūkā i ka holomua o ka ʻenehana, nā hopena kūikawā, ka helu ʻana, a pēlā aku. E kōkua kēia i kāu poʻe keiki e hoʻomāhuahua i ka mahalo i ke ʻano, e aʻo i kekahi o nā ʻenehana i nā ʻoniʻoni weliweli, a kōkua iā lākou e noʻonoʻo koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ka mea a lākou e nānā nei. “

Weliweli no ka poʻe hoʻomaka

No ka rula-i ka manamana maikaʻi, 'ōleloʻo Knorr e koho i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i kūpono i nā makahiki. Nui nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli no nā keiki e hiki ke hoʻolauna mālie iā lākou i kāu ʻano.

"Nui nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni hoʻomaka e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu i kāu keiki i loko o ke ʻano. Ma waho aʻe o kēlā, e kamaʻilio pū ana me lākou e pili ana i nā mea a lākou e nānā nei, pehea ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana i ia mea, a me nā mea a lākou e manaʻo ai e pili ana. "

ʻOi aku ka makaʻu o nā kaikamahine ma mua o nā keikikāne?

ʻAʻole pono ka wahine e lilo i mea e hoʻoholo ai inā e nui aku ka hopena o kāu keiki a i ʻole ʻaʻole e hoʻopili ʻia e kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. Ke hoʻolauna nei ʻoe i kahi keikikāne a i ʻole kaikamahine i nā pīhoihoi o kahi flick maikaʻi, like paha ka hopena.

"He mea hou aʻe ia e pili ana i nā makemake o ke keiki." Wahi a Knorr. "Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻolauna i kāu poʻe keiki i ke ʻano, e ʻimi i nā kumuhana e pili ana iā lākou. He mea nui nō hoʻi ia e ʻike nā keiki i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni me nā huapalapala i stereotypical. E nānā i nā mea hoʻohālikelike wahine ikaika, nā kāne e hōʻike i ka naʻau i makemake ʻole i ka hana ʻino e hoʻonā i nā pilikia, ka hoʻonā ʻana i ka hakakā, ʻaʻohe lole skimpy, a me nā hōʻike maikaʻi a me nā mea hoʻomohala piha o nā lāhui āpau.

Nanea i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli ma kāu pae o nā keiki

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻokomo mua i kāu keiki me ka manaʻo o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli, akā e ʻae ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻopili iā ʻoe. Noho paha ʻoe ma waena o kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i ʻoi aku ma luna o kā lākou pae e hoʻoholo ai i ka mea a lākou e hiki ai ke mālama. Hōʻike ʻo Caroline Knorr i kekahi mau kiʻi ʻoniʻoni i hiki ke lilo i segue maikaʻi i ke ʻano.

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"ʻO ka Exorcist "no Fans Advanced Fans

ʻOiai ʻaʻole mahalo paha kāu mau makahiki he 8 i ka haʻalulu post traumatic i hele mai me ka nānā ʻana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e like me "The Exorcist", e hoʻoholo ana kahi makua maikaʻi inā he waiwai kēlā mau hopena. Hiki paha i nā mea aloha weliweli ke hoʻopaʻa pū me kā lākou keiki ʻaʻole wale ma ka kaʻana like ʻana i kā lākou kiʻi ʻoniʻoni hoʻoweliweli i ka manawa kūpono, akā e hoʻolōʻihi ana i ka manawa e wehewehe ai i nā manaʻo a me nā naʻau i loaʻa mai ka nānā ʻana iā ia.

E haʻi i ka ihorror i kou mau makahiki i ka wā i nānā mua ai i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a pehea ka hopena iā ʻoe.

ʻO Caroline Knorr ʻo ka mea hoʻoponopono makua no ʻO nā ʻōnaehana maʻamau.